Category Archives: Love and Friendship

Friendship… A ship that helps you sail in an ocean of selfish hearts…

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We often hear quotes about friendship with couple of the popular one’s being:

A Friend in Need in a Friend Indeed

Friendship is a Rainbow between two hearts

When I think of a day for Friendship, I feel awkward about it. The reason is quite simple. Imagine a day where you spend less than 30 minutes without any friend. There might be a day when you don’t have time to talk to your mom for 30 minutes. There might be a day when you have not seen your dad in the entire day, though you stay in the same house. 🙂

But with the advent of social networking sites and thanks to the wonderful ads by Airtel “Har Ek Friend Zaroori Hotha Hai” you cant be away from all your friends even a single day. Friendship has become an integral part of our life just like few other things which we take for granted.

Within this enormous world of selfish hearts where everyone thinks of the benefits to be with the other person or even to interact with the other person, there is one precious bond called friendship which makes life simple. Many interactions during our day have a purpose, have a reason but there are few interactions/conversations, which need not a reason but the conversation eventually would bring a smile on your face.

On a simple note, when I think Friendship day is not to celebrate the current friendship but to make new friends, I feel happy that there is a day like this. Celebrating friendship with friends already sounds foolish to me because, you never need a day to celebrate that. Whenever you catch up it is a celebration. But putting aside a day to find new people and new hearts which think alike makes sense. But for that, all of us have to feel free to be friends and make sure the bond being created on that day last forever and ever even in difficult times of not being able to keep in touch.

Hope this friendship day you find few more wonderful friends who can share love to you not expecting anything back, hit on your back not allowing you to make a mistake, pat on your back whenever you achieve something and give you a warm hug whenever you need them to be with you.

This is friendship my friends. Wish you all a very Happy Friendship Day!!!

Here is a link to an old post by me about Friendship Day:

https://myreflections.wordpress.com/2007/08/05/friendship-deserves-a-day-yes-it-does/

Thanks and Regards,

Krishna Chaitanya Emani

What does the word True-Friend mean???

Hello people,

I was wondering and having some conflicting thoughts on “who is a true-friend???”,  ” what is a true friend suppose to do???”, “Do you have to keep calling him/her regularly???”, “Do you have to hang-out regular???”, “Do you have to keep saying he is your best-friend every other time???”.

I think thats a lot of questions. I was thinking about all the friends that I had from my childhood till date…

I remember some of them very well and the rest, I know they studied with me, they went to school along with me but they were not really close to me when I was along with them. So how do we decide who is close and who is not??? how do you consider a person is close or not even when you are not in continuous touch with that person??? Well everyone might have a different call on this but this is what I felt and hence would like to put it across to all of you to know your views.

You meet a person for the first time and you start talking with him/her introducing yourself. Then you get a chance to meet this person again you start to exchange some more information about each other. In this process you start to feel either comfortable or uncomfortable depending on the frequency match. When you enjoy spending time with this person and when you feel you can be good friends, you tend to get along well and you get the feeling of belongingness.

Here comes a point when you tend to take things for granted. Is that correct or wrong???

When I say you tend to take things for granted I meant, you take it for granted that this new friend of yours is there for you when ever you need him/her. You take it for granted that he/she is a very good friend of your’s. You take it for granted that he/she understands you in different situations. This is what I felt always and this is what I still believe in.

Hence once you take it for granted that he/she is a very good friend of yours… “how often do you contact him/her???” Rather let me put the question this way “How often should you contact him/her???”

I would like to say, in the day to day life it might not be possible to keep in touch with everyone whom you meet. But its always the feeling that is important and its always the respect that you maintain for that person thats important. I would like to mention about some of my very good friends. I have not talked with them in months now, I have not even made a phone call and in fact when one of them called me, I told I will call him back because I was busy and never called him back. But even today I am 200% sure, that if I call him we will be as close as we always were and if we meet each other we would enjoy time as good as we were always connected.

On the other hand if my friend needed my help, I knew for sure that he would contact me. I knew for sure that if he had any trouble he would contact me. So I would like to say that true friends always stay connected, whether they call each other regularly or not, whether they meet each other regularly or not, whether they hang out every weekend or not.

A true friend is someone who is there for you when he’d rather be anywhere else. — Len Wein

Well guys this is what I feel and I promise all of you… I am here anytime when you need any kind of help…

I will be there for you the moment you feel you need someone… I will be there for you if you feel in your heart that I am a good friend of yours.

If you feel anything different from what I mentioned in this blog, or if you agree with this… please leave your comments because I would like to know what you all think.

Thanks,

Chaitanya.


Friendship means something to me… Infact it means a lot…

I returned to Rolla after a long trip to California (San Diego and San Jose). In this trip I met many people and had some very good time with all of them. After I came back from the trip, the silence in my room made me realize a lot of beautiful facts about friendship.

Why should a person sacrifice the time spent with his parents and come back to drop me at the airport?

Why should someone sacrifice his work and money and come back early to take me to SFO and waste a days time to take me to Santa Cruize beach?

Why should someone be awake until 4AM to spend time with me?

Why should a girl wait until 9:30 PM in the night and go back home alone in a local train?

These were the questions striking at me when I was alone in the room. And there is only one answer to this list of queries that I had. Interestingly its a single word answer FRIENDSHIP. Yes, this word makes your day or breaks your day. Just imagine a day without speaking to any of your friends. In a world like this and most importantly in a place like this, a day might go by without talking to your parents but its impossible to pass a day without talking to a close friend.

In the California trip… I met two of my school friends, one of my intermediate friend, one of my engineering friend and 6 of my master’s friends. So this trip had a totality to itself as it covered friends from my whole educational life. And everyone of these were close to me and if not close are very good friends. And the hospitality, love and affection that they showed towards me in the entire trip is commendable.

To start with, Karthik’s sacrifice was un quantifiable. His parents came to USA for the first time and it was the first weekend that he was with them. And its only because of my stupid planning to return back on Sunday, he had to leave back to San Diego from LA without spending the Sunday with them. This was pinching me throughout my return journey and in fact even now. This pain might be gone only when he meets them this weekend. Karthik, sorry once again for the trouble. And you have been great throughout the trip and I had the best time compared to any other trip I had till now. Other person who needs to be mentioned is Samar. He was a great company when Karthik went to office. We shared some memorable moments together and we also shared our personal and professional emotions that we faced throughout our life. It was great meeting Samar again in a different place.

The second person is Koushik. This guy is my classmate from my kindergarten and to put it in simple words… I might have spend more than half of my student life with him and couple of my other school mates. We share a tremendous rapport among us and the kind of affection that we share is different from many other friendships. In fact when you are very close to a person, I guess the relation turns out to be the same. It was such a nice meet that we felt as if we were living together for long time even though we met for the first time after two years. And he was the guy who spend an entire day to take me to Santa Cruise beach, and came back early to take me to SFO. And the other important person to be mentioned is Sudhir. He is the other kindergarten friend of mine and without him SFO trip would have been a dream. He took immense pain to come and take me there after a tiring days work. Thanks to Koushik and Sudhir.

The third person who was awake till 4 AM inspite of the next day being a working day is Sidharth. He has been my best pal since my engineering and its again the same feeling that I share with him too. Even if we meet after 10 years we just get along so easily that we feel we were together the entire 10 years. It doesnt happen with everyone and thats the reason why these people are so special to me. Thanks to Sidharth to for his time.

And the fourth person. How can I start about this person. She is my best friend since my 10+1. Her name is Pragathi and the way our friendship developed needs to be mentioned in a separate blog. She is such a sweet person and such a caring person that she made sure that she met me everyday after the days work. And one day she had to leave back home in a local train at 9:30PM and she did that only to meet me. She is yet another friend of mine with exactly the same rapport as the ones mentioned previously. I was filled with over joy to see all my best pals in my entire life at once (couple or more were missing in California). What else can I ask for. Is there anything that I need in a trip. No!!! nothing else. I am totally satisfied with my trip to California.

Everyone I met on the trip had a special position in my heart and in my life and every moment I spent with them in the trip will be a memorable moment throughout my life. Karthik used to laugh at me every time I asked him to take a photograph. But dude for me those memories can never be deleted, its just to enhance these memories I asked to you take those pics. You all are very important in my life and I hope we remain good friends for ever and ever and ever. Love you all.

Yours,

ESVK (For Koushik and Sudhir), Kittu (For Pragathi), KC or Chaitu (For Siddu), Chaitanya Emani(For Karthik and Samar and all MS friends).

Never Thought this day will come again… Thanks Karthik

Hello Friends,

Few days back you might have seen a blog on a person by the name Praveen GK… yeah thats a blog right out of my heart and everything in that was so emotional… while I was writing that blog I thought I would never see a similar day in my life…

There is a saying in telugu… I am not sure how many of you can understand this but it says…

“Akasmika Parichayaaale Saswathaalu…” The meaning is, the meet which happens all of a sudden and grows slowly is the one that remains forever…  this is the same point I mentioned in my previous blog. When Praveen left Rolla… I was the only guy at the send off. This time the person at the other end changed. Its Karthik this time and I was the only person at his send off from Rolla…

Same feelings pondered in me when Karthik was leaving… who is going to play Ping Pong (Table Tennis) with me??? Who is going to play pool with me (best of 15)??? Who will watch movies with me??? These were the thoughts in my mind when he was leaving… but at any moment I should not show the weakness in my face because he is going for his good, so he has to be happy…

The journey of our friendship was also very funny and interesting… The first semester we met… we had a common course (Digital Signal Processing). We hardly remember a day when we studied for that course, but we usually met in the library to prepare for the exam. After the first semester he went to India and the whole summer just went by without any real contacts with each other. Then in Fall 06 we had Real Time DSP course together… but within a month he got his Co-Op in Qual Comm and off he goes to San Diego…

The whole Fall semester we never talked with each other… then in the Spring 07, he took Statistical Decision Theory course and we used to talk a lot on phone as he took that course  online from San Diego…  then he came back in summer to Rolla but this time I was in Kansas City doing my Internship…

Finally after my internship I went to India and when I came back both of us met in Rolla… it seems funny… we hardly met each other and we hardly spent some time together but we always had that rapport between us… and once I came back… I moved into his room and thats when the bond got stronger… the same thing happened with Praveen too… but Karthik is a different person all together…

He doesnt express his feelings very easily as Praveen does… he doesnt show that eagerness to share things with people… so it was a different kind of relation that jelled between Karthik and I… but guys I really miss him after he went to his job… I craked jokes at him… made fun of him… he always accepted it with a smile… I sometimes feel I am very lucky to have friends like this around me… I dont know why??? I came in Spring 06, both Praveen and Karthik came in Fall 05. But never ever we felt that we are from two different batches… infact the kind of rapport that I share with Fall 05 batch, I dont share it with many people even in my batch… may be this is called friendship and may be this is called a relation…

Karthik!!! it was great feeling to share my feelings and time with you… hope to see many more of those days in future… thanks a lot for all the valuable time you shared with me… and if anytime I hurt you… it was not at all intentional and I am sure you dont even remember any of those incidents… so I will not say any sorry to you… all the best dude… nice to meet you in my life and lets hope both of us can start the food business in US… hahaha just kidding…

Have fun in life…

With love

Krishna Chaitanya Emani.

Friendship Deserves a Day… Yes it Does!!!

Happy Friendship Day to all of you…

Thank you very much to all of you who stood by me and helped me overcome all my difficulties throughout my life. It has been a cake walk for me always with the blessing and love that all of you showered on me.

I do not have anyone else who showed so much love towards me ever… Its my parents first and then it you all…

MY FRIENDS!!! YES MY FRIENDS!!!

You were the ones who loved me the most after my parents… I was talking to my parents one evening after the College Reunion that we had in Chicago on June 2nd and 3rd. I told them that I was very happy for meeting my friends… and immediately the next words that came out of my mouth were…

I AM SO HAPPY DAD, I MET MY FRIENDS, THEY ARE THE NEXT CLOSE PEOPLE TO HEART AFTER YOU RIGHT… SO I AM VERY HAPPY…

Thats the importance of friends in life… and I cherish every moment with you all…

It really deserves a day and hope this friendship day gets new friends and also rebuild some of the old friendships…

 LOVE YOU ALL… Once again wish you all a very happy friendship day…

Friends…

Thanks,

Krishna Chaitanya Emani.

AUROReunion… Fun filled Emotional Trauma

I have last met my parents on December 27th 2005. I met many of my close friends for the last time on December 27th 2005 and some even before that when they left for MS. Today its June 7th 2007. It has been more than 1 and a half years since I met anyone who was close to my heart. I met some of my friends in May 2007, Pradeep, Revanth, Vishal and Priyanka which made me very happy, but the very feeling that I am going to meet 10 of my friends at once in Chicago made me the happiest person. Everytime I look at the calander I count days for June 1st. That was the day when we planned to meet. All of us booked tickets, made arrangements to go to the Airport but the day has not yet arrived. All of us are eagerly waiting for the day. Finally, the day has begun. It was June 1st and emotions started to overtake us. I dont know about all others but for me, the feeling that I will be meeting my friends did not allow me to do any other work that day. I could not sleep the night before that, I did not work anything in the office that day, just waiting and I might have looked at the clock atleast 100 times that day.

Anil Ramachandran, a friend of mine drove me down to the airport.  I reached there around 5’o clock though my flight was scheduled at 7 PM. I did not know how to spend 2 hours waiting for the flight, and to add ghee to the fire the flight was delayed. It was delayed by 3 hours and finally it took off at 10:30PM. I reached Chicago, which was our meeting point at 11:20PM. Pavan was also expect to arrive at the same time. So Praneeth was waiting at the airport for us and finally when I reached the airport I called Praneeth and informed him that I have just landed.

With a lot of confusion (Chicago Airport is known for this) I met my friends. Excitement, true excitement to see them, I was spell bound, I shout at once maaaaaaaamaaaaaaaa, I went as fast as I could to them and I hugged Pavan, the most happiest moment in the last 2 years, then I hugged Praneeth and then Sri Karan, everyone of these three were like my close friends. Those moments when we saw each other after 2 years left a mark in my mind. I was so excited. Divya also came to the airport along with them, she is another person with whom I was very close throughout my engineering life till date. I said hi to her and then we started to go to the parking lot. Both Pavan and I were hungry as it was a long wait in the airport for the flight. We walked to the parking lot.

Our friends who are so concerned about us brought Biryani to the airport. Pavan and I could not stop ourselves from jumping onto it. We sat there in the parking lot and started eating the Biryani (True home like feeling).

Pavan and I having Biryani in the Parking lot.

Pic: Pavan and I having Biryani in the Parking lot of the Airport as Karan and Divya are watching. Camera Man: Praneeth.

We were waiting for another hero Sidharth who was expected to arrive at 12:15 AM that night. He called Praneeth and informed that he got down from the flight. Praneeth, Karan and Pavan went to get him to the parking area. Finally he came and I went to him running to hug him, when I hugged him that fellow comes up with a statement saying,

“Aaagu bey evaraina chusthe malli vere arthaalu vasthaayi”.

It really pissed me off but knowing the kind of item that fellow is I never reacted for that. Vamsee also came to the airport so we drove back to the motel in two cars. There I met Saritha and Revanth who came to help us with luggage. Saritha all of a sudden started hitting me, and when I asked why are you hitting me she came up with a brilliant answer saying I feel like hitting you after 2 years, I dint get a chance in these 2 years to hit you so I am hitting you. We went into the rooms and thought of talking with each other the whole night but many of them were already tired so some of them slept at around 3 AM. Karan, Siddu, Revanth and I were still talking and we slept at 6 AM.

Saturday Morning

In our Motel room.

Pic: In motel Room. Clockwise: Karan,  Praneeth, Pavan, Siddu and I.

The plan for saturday morning was to go to Aurora Temple. Funny thing about this was, our engineering college was Aurora and the caption was Temple of Learning. And now our first visiting place in the reunion was Aurora Temple. Thank god the pujari was not Ramesh Babu (Founder of our college). Divya, Saritha, Triveni (Saritha’s Friend) , Praneeth and I came in one car and all others came in the other car. Vamsee was driving that car and as usual he got lost on the way and we had almost 30 mins before they came. So it was a nice chance for some good photos.

Aurora TempleSaritha and MePraneeth and Me

Divya, Me, Praneeth, SarithaPraneeth and Divya

Pics: Some of the Pics taken before Vamsee and gang came to the temple

Vamsee car gang.

Pic: Vamsee Car Gang. Vamsee, Siddu, Karan, Pavan.

Vamsee and gang finally reached the temple. Then we went into the temple for the Darshanam. Had a very good darshan of lord Venkateshwara. Apart from the temple bells, there were bells ringing in our stomach. Most of us did not have breakfast. By the time we came out, there was a generous family offering food to the vistors in the temple. We had that first and then ordered different variety of food from the temple canteen and started to relish it.

Pic before going into the temple

Pic: Just before going into the temple.

Having a wonderful lunch at the Temple.

Pic: Having a Wonderful Lunch at the Temple.

From there our next place was Navy Pier. We went to the Parking lot of Shedd Aquarium and enjoyed a fantastic view of the downtown from that place. The view was beautiful. We took some pics there and then went to Navy Pier in a water taxi.

At the Temple

Pic: All of us together in Aurora Temple

The boat ride was very nice with water spilling on to the face. We were accompanied by a beautiful couple (They were just sitting beside us, not that they came along with us). I bet most of our friends in the boat might not observed them but……………. hmmmm forget it.

Shedd Aquarium

Shedd Aquarium All

Pics: Taken beside Shedd Aquarium with a beautiful Lake View

Anyways we went to Navy Pier and immediately we got call from Pradeep (Our Local Hero). Pradeep, Priyanka, Revanth had there convocation that day in the morning so they joined in late. So as soon as we went in the plan was changed (You can expect this in a meet with 11 people). So we had to leave Navy Pier in 30 mins to the Lake Shore Drive.

We reached Lake Shore Drive at 7PM. And we started walking towards the beach. Took some pics on the way to the beach. The best time in the entire trip was in the beach. In the 11 people that we met some of them were working in MNC’s, some other’s graduated, some others were looking for jobs, I am sure none of us were less than 23 years of age. But at that moment everyone of us were kids… some of them (Girls ofcoz) started building houses in sand. Some of them started fighting like kids in the sand, some of them were running to catch one another ohhh it was a fun filled atmosphere.

Wonderful Pic on the beach.

Pic: When we just entered the Beach

We were thinking of games which involved everyone of us. We came up with all kinds of Ideas. Current-Shock (Lock and Key as some of the call it), Helping Chain, Chain Cut what not what not… finally we decided to play Chain Cut, as it involves everyone. We had to decide who is going to be the chor.

We did that funny thing I dont know what they call it in English but in telugu they call it Pantalu. We did that and Karan was the bakra for that day. But you know what, Siddu does not allow anyone to be Bakra alone for long time, so he joined Karan to catch the others. Not very late even I joined (I was not out but they cheated me) and as all of you know about me I accepted and joined them. Then we could catch two others and no more. We were exhausted and couldnt run anymore.

Just before starting Chain Cut.

Pic: Before starting the game Chain-Cut. Pantalu Vesukuntunnamoch.

Then we decided not to play any game which has physical movement. We sat down in a circle and were thinking of a game to play. I came up with an idea of playing dumb sherards. This was the funniest moment in the entire trip. Every movie title was dealt in a brilliant way. It started with Jamba Lakidi Pamba, Vamsee enacted that and he did a brilliant job. Then various other titles came up with the only one losing to be Pradeep. He was trying to enact Naaaku Pellam Kavali. So the losers were, Pradeep, Vamsee, Pavan, Karan and Siddu . And the winners were Divya, Priyanka, Triveni, Revanth, and me. Just kidding guys its not the matter of who won, its the fact that everyone of us won that moment and will remember those funny incidents throughout our life.

From there we went to Devon Street to have our dinner and then we drove back to the motel. Once we went back all the girls fell asleep and we guys gathered in the other room. We were talking, commenting on each other, thinking and recollecting our undergrad lives and suddenly once again, the same person was the center in that room. He came up with something FISHY and that made him the center again. I know dude, immediately after looking at this you are going to say FISH. Anyways that was fun again and it was 4 in the morning by that time. Slowly people started to sleep and everyone except, Pavan, Karan, Siddu and I were still awake. We talked about each other, we talked about the difficulties each one of us faced, we talked about happy moments in our lives in these two years, we talked about the toughest times in our lives in these two years, financially and emotionally. That was one of the best talks that I had in my last two years and none of us slept till 8 AM that day, but we enjoyed every moment of it. Every word that we spoke that night came from our hearts, every talk that we had made some sense to us, every decision that we took that night will definitely impact our lives in a great way. I dont know about others but for me that was the best time I can even dream of spending with my friends. Thanks to Pavan, Siddu and Karan. I will remember that talks for the remainder of my life.

Sleeping at 8AM none of us even thought in our wildest dreams that we will get up at 10 AM. As  Imentioned before some of us slept just 3 hours even the day before. But you will be surprised to know everyone of us were ready by 11 AM. The point is very simple, we did not want to waste time sleeping. So we set off from the hotel again for lunch and we went to Udipi Hotel.

We had some good food there and then it was time for me and Pavan to depart. Thats the worst feeling friends, to meet the loved ones and to leave them so soon is the worst feeling anyone can have. I was not in a mood to talk to anyone, I dint want to leave that place and at the same time if I talk to anyone I was afraid that I might burst out, I did not want that to happen. I was so quite that day, everyone noticed that and everyone were feeling that same. The last 30 mins before I left I observed a calmness in the entire group, everyone knew that was the end of the trip, everyone knew that we will not see each other again for certain number of days. But there is one thing which none of us knew. How time just ran away. None of us realized that we spent two days together, it was so short. Once again hugs, smile, farewell, everyone had a smile on the face saying good bye, but everyone of us knew that it was artificial. Tears were just on the tip of the eyes, even if one of the whole lot had their tears dripping down I am sure it would have been an emotional out burst.

Thats it guys, 3rd June 2007 put an end to whats called the extra-ordinary Reunion. Thanks to one and all who made this meet possible. I would like to name each one of you who attended the meet, Priyanka, Pradeep, Revanth, Vamsee, Praneeth, Pavan, Divya, Saritha, Sidharth, Karan and Triveni. Triveni, a special thanks to you for the patience to take our photographs. Without you the meet would have been incomplete, you helped us remember this meet all throughout our lives. Thanks to all the people who wished they would be in Chicago but could not make it due to their own personal reasons. Dont worry guys trailblazers will be setting new trends always and many more meets in future. Thanks to all our friends back in India who really felt with their heart and soul that we should have a great time together.

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Pic: Collage

Thats it guys, Good bye all of you, this is my official farewell to the meet. All the best to all of you in all your current and future endeavours. Miss you all. Love you all.

All the photographs can be check at: http://picasaweb.google.com/kittuis4u/AUROReunion?authkey=K0ZjsRBt-QA

Yours lovingly,

Krishna Chaitanya Emani (KC).

Rolla Fever – How hard it can get to leave Rolla

Leaving all the loved ones back in India (Mother, Father, Brother, Relatives and Friends) can get really difficult for anyone. More than leaving the people back in India it’s the feeling of leaving the place that you grew up in. You would like to see many things around you everyday. The ground that you play in, the street that you walk in, the people who say hi to you when you walk along the roads. Have that cup of coffee made by your mother when you get up early in the morning. Lean back on the couch and watch the India Vs Pakistan match as your mother makes Onion Pakoda’s in the kitchen. Ohhh my god I can’t feel bad for missing those anymore!!!!!!!!!!

These emotions and feelings are common for everyone who comes to USA from India. But what we (students at Rolla) have which any other International Student elsewhere in USA do not, is the love and affection among ourselves in Rolla. The India Association at UMR is probably the strongest and the most active association that I have ever heard off from any of my friends located in different universities. There are around 250 to 300 Indian students in UMR and on any given day, almost everyone of these 250 members can name atleast 150 out of the 250 Indian’s in Rolla. And I am sure everyone of us will recognize every other person if not name them.

Why is Rolla so successful in offering Love and emotional support

Firstly the place is fantastic and is a perfect place to have an educational Institution. I know everyone of us cursed one day or the other for being in a place like Rolla where we cannot party out, cannot see anything, cannot plan a trip to any other place. Rolla is 120 miles away from St. Louis which is the gateway between Rolla and any other place in this world that we want to go to.

Inspite of staying in such a remote place what you really want everyday is some pleasant faces wishing you good morning!!! when you get up. People who look at you with a bright smile asking how are you? People who feel the happiness to see you succeed, people who help you in every step that you take to succeed in whatever field you are in. People elsewhere can think of a party only in the weekends, but in Rolla we have party almost everyday. If you want to have a cup of coffee, just give someone a call and say that you want to have a coffee. That person will instantly call couple of other people and by the time we go to have that cup of coffee at someone’s place we are 10 to 20 people. All set for a small size party!!!!!!!!

Apart from this we have parties for birthday, we have parties if someone is graduating, we have parties if someone gets an internship, for any Indian festival (Holi, Diwali, Vinayaka Chavithi) anything for that matter. If it’s a B’ day of anyone in Rolla, its almost mandatory that you will get an invitation for the party. Even if you do not get an invitation, no regrets, you are always welcome to attend the party. Imagine there are 250 to 300 people in Rolla and even if you attend 100 birthday parties you have an oppurtunity to meet everyone more than quarter off the number of days in an year. India Association screens movies every Friday where we get to meet people again. So if you are in Rolla, you are bound to know people, you are bound to get close with some of them. Its so Obvious!!!

At the end of my Party

Pic: When I threw a party for getting an Internship

Performing Puja on Garba Night

Pic: Performing Puja on Garba Night

If you see a person coming in front of you, you will wish him/her for sure and talk with that person about the way his masters is coming along, check if he has any problems, wish him good luck and leave. As mentioned earlier if there is any party you are an obvious person to be in that party, you are certain whom you will meet in the party, which is obvious, you have so many events where you get close to people which is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo obvious.

You take everything for granted, to see some people whom you meet everyday, you take your computer, you lab where you spend more than half of the time, your friends with whom you spend almost your whole day, the department corridors, the labs, the classrooms, the lawns in front of the departments, Schuman for cricket and volley ball, everything for granted. The frequency of alomost everyone in Rolla is tuned to the life at Rolla. When the time comes for  you to go out of Rolla, you really feel the pinch. You feel the emotions of leaving your second home.

Many of the people who graduated this May had the bitter feeling for leaving Rolla more than the happiness that they graduated. Many of us might have heard of the phrase Blessing in Disguise but this is Disguise in Blessing. Graduating is a definite blessing but leaving Rolla is a Disguise. Here the disguise dominated the blessing. Once we go to work, we do not see so many people around us, we do not have so many people caring about us, we do not have so much time to have parties, chit chat, we are going to miss all this fun throughout our life. Friends being in such a wornderful community like Rolla, just spread the love to everyone and let everyone experience the same closeness and love that you showed upon everyone in Rolla.

Pic taken on Holi by India Association

This pic shows the Strength of India Association UMR and how sweet the community is…

The strength and support of all will remain with you where ever you are…

All the best,

Krishna Chaitanya Emani.

Farewell Praveen G K-(Great Knight)

The meaning of the word Knight is servant or a simple boy. And the reason I added great before that is that he is a Great servant of Friendship and a very simple boy. He is one of the very few people whom I admire and respect the most in Rolla. His emotions, feelings and thoughts match so much with mine that it appears as if we were brought up under the same roof from the childhood.

Praveen after his Graduation

Pic: Praveen after his Graduation, after Getting a job, look at the simplicity.

I met this guy in my first semester, when we had two courses in common (Communications Systems II and Wireless Communications). At the first sight I felt that he is so tensed and so confused all the time, that thought did not change even today, he is still the same tensed and confused GK, but there was always some respect towards him right from my first sem for his hard working and helpful nature. Incidentally we had an opputunity to interact with each other a lot as we were in the oppposite labs. A day never passed by without peeping into each others labs atleast 5 to 6 times.

In the first semester the discussions were professional. We used to discuss about the courses, projects, homeworks, exams. Most of the interaction was about the Communication Systems II project and ofcourse some times about the Wireless Communications projects. Mohana, Deepak, Rommel, Praveen and I were the people who always prepared for the wireless communications exam together. Finally we ended the first sem on a good note.

The second semester that is the Fall 2006 did not allow us to interact much but we always saw each other and met each other as we were in the opposite labs. In this semester we had only one course in common (RTDSP). That course was a cake walk for all of us so we did not have chance to interact much. But the third semester really showed how a relation can grow between two people. Its Spring 2007. This semester we do not have even a single course in common but we had a lot of interaction regarding the research, papers and thesis.

This semester, Praveen was a tensed person worrying about his job, about his thesis, where is he going to end up, is he going to get a job in the required field, many thought pondering in his mind. Some of his statements sounded like this

Where am I going to end up man?

I really doubt if I can get any job“.

Imagine my tension man, I dont have a job and I am Graduating in a month

Do you think my thesis will be approved?

I was at the receiving end of all that tension but I never felt bad for that because everytime he shared those feelings with me he had a relief in his face. And all that I had to give his was a bit of time and some words of encouragement. Even he knows he is going to get a very good job but he was worried that it was just not happening.

Finally he got a job in a company called AWARE INC. He was happy that he got it in the field he wanted, in the core field. And by that time we were almost so close with each other that we had everything sharing between us. We shared our feelings, happiness, sarrows, emotions, thoughts about parents everything. If I think of some of the memorable people in Rolla his name is so obvious. We spent so many hours in the corridor in between our labs chatting so many things about life. In the last few days we spend so many hours in each others house, talking, working together and I cant tell in words how time just flew between us.

Today I am really happy that he got a very good job. The day has finally come. The day when he have to leave for his job. Its today 16th May 2007. After a long time after leaving my parents, I felt as if I was leaving one of my very close person. He left at 10:30 A.M. in the morning on 16th. Believe me or not I called him in the evening at 6P.M. to call him to play cricket. I bid farewell to him in the morning but I just forgot that he left for his job. I know all these emotions are part and parcel of life. Praveen there might not be any more talks in the corridors of EE, may be not many talks in your house and my house, may not many nightouts working on projects together but one thing is for sure, I have really found a great friend in you.

Thanks for the wonderful company and warmth that you provided me throughout your stay in Rolla. Thanks a lot dude, hope we remain friends for ever and ever and ever. All the best to you in all your future endeavours. I dont know if UMR provided something to us professionally but emotionally it has been our second house with the wonderful community that we have here. Thanks you UMR, thanks to India Association.

Praveen and I on his Graduation day
Pic: Me and Praveen on his Graduation Day